Before you kneel
Everything you need to know before you reach out. Read this before contacting me — it will save us both time
Getting Started
How do I initiate a session?
Begin with an email or WhatsApp message. Include your first name, age, and a brief description of what you're seeking. Be honest and be specific — the more I know, the better I can prepare. Vague enquiries will receive vague responses.
Do you see beginners?
Yes. I welcome newcomers who approach with genuine curiosity and respect. I will guide you through every step — nothing is assumed, nothing is rushed. Uncertainty is fine. Rudeness is not.
Is there an age requirement?
Yes. I do not see clients under the age of 30. No exceptions.
Do you offer remote sessions?
Yes. Under My Thumb is my text service — one hour of direct messaging, available to anyone in the world regardless of location. My control doesn't require you to be in Hatfield. If you're curious but can't travel, this is where you start.
The Sessions
Where are you located?
"I am based in Hatfield, Hertfordshire. The nearest station is Hatfield train station — my playroom is approximately five minutes by car. I am easily reached from London, St Albans, Welwyn Garden City, Stevenage, Luton, and Watford, with regular direct trains into Hatfield from London Kings Cross and Moorgate. A parking permit will be arranged once your deposit and date are confirmed, so please have your registration ready.
What happens during a session?
You will be greeted at the door, guided upstairs to the playroom, from there we will discuss your interests, limits, and intentions beforehand. From there, I take control. You can expect psychological depth, physical intensity, and an experience tailored entirely to what you need from me.
Every session is different because every person is different.
Will there be marks left?
Impact play involves calculated force — floggers, canes, paddles. I begin slowly to gauge your threshold. If you prefer not to be marked, tell me in advance and I will adapt accordingly. Aftercare is always available at the end of every session.
What is not included?
No sexual services
No activities involving animals
No clients under the age of 30
No asphyxiation
Practicalities
What are your rates?
How is my privacy protected?
Standard sessions and specialist sessions are listed on the Sessions page. For extended bookings:
2 hours — £350
3 hours — £500
4 hours — £650
Overnight — £1,300
A deposit of one third is required by bank transfer to secure your booking. The remainder is due upon arrival.
Absolute discretion is non-negotiable. All client information is strictly confidential. Sessions take place in a private, secure environment. I expect the same level of confidentiality from everyone who enters my space.
What is your approach to consent and safety?
Your physical and psychological wellbeing is my absolute priority. A safe word is discussed and agreed before every session — it is always available and always honoured without question.
What are the boundaries of Financial Domination?
FinDom is a psychological power exchange built on the voluntary transfer of resources. It is strictly hands-off, conducted within pre-agreed limits, and always based on what is sustainable for you. Clear boundaries are established before anything begins.
Still have a question? Don't hesitate. There are no foolish enquiries here — only missed opportunities.
Via WhatsApp or email. Responses within 24 hours. Not available after 10pm or on Sundays.